This one was a very interesting read for me because I don’t consider myself much of a hopeful person. I don't mean that I am a pessimist and I view the world as some kind of hellscape. I would consider myself a realist in the sense that I just don't expect much from life but after reading this I realize that may be a part of the reason that I always feel like I’m stagnant & not growing as a person. I don't really see myself as anyone extraordinary in any way & I relate to you questioning why you yourself would deserve certain things. Im now wondering if its our society/social media that has made me feel as though only people who possess some kind of amazing talent or work ethic or intense beauty are worthy of being heard & thus I constantly live in a state of managed expectations. Would love to hear your thoughts on that.
Not sure if its obvious but I didn't write any hard set new years resolutions so that I don't have to face the idea that I failed in completing them (like every single past year). I did set some loose/vague ones though that I felt were equally not too pressing but are aimed for my personal growth. I now know that these “resolutions” I've set are filled with my own hope that I will continue to grow as a person & become more self-disciplined, but without the implication that Ive failed something if I don't completely transform myself.
This was definitely a topic I didn't ever think about so Im glad I got to reflect on that part of myself. Beautifully written once again, & I cant wait for the next one!
ps your newsletter is actually helping with one of my resolutions which is to focus on myself & just put the same amount of my energy that I give to other people, into myself. Reading these newsletters allow me the opportunity to reflect on myself in ways I might not always get to do on my own so thank you for that!
Words cannot describe how much I look forward to your comments and your insight. Every time I hear what you have to say I feel like I need to write a Part 2 to include some of the perspectives that you bring.
I absolutely love that you are planning on focusing on yourself more this year! I hope this newsletter continues to be a tool that you can use for reflection and self-growth. Excited to hear your thoughts on the next one!
Hey Rae ( hey whadyya know this rhymes! :) I can’t help myself sometimes and I find laughter in the most unusual places.
I loved your post, because it was honest and very relatable. We all struggle with self-doubt, insecurities and various levels of pessimism. But I couldn’t agree more that the power is in the overcoming despite the doubts. It is difficult to overcome our fears without the holding on tenaciously to hope. I love that you dared to dream… it has reminded me that I need to do more of this.
You received wise counsel- God can use anyone regardless of credentials. He mostly desires someone with a willing heart and an overcomer’s spirit. A willing heart and an overcoming spirit are hard to have without hope. Thank you for sharing your heart with us Rae, it has touched me in wonderful and unexpected ways.
Hi Auntie Njoki!! My face absolutely lit up when I read your comment. It means so much to me that you enjoyed my post and that you were touched by it. I always welcome your encouragement, wise counsel, and jokes/humour!! <3
This one was a very interesting read for me because I don’t consider myself much of a hopeful person. I don't mean that I am a pessimist and I view the world as some kind of hellscape. I would consider myself a realist in the sense that I just don't expect much from life but after reading this I realize that may be a part of the reason that I always feel like I’m stagnant & not growing as a person. I don't really see myself as anyone extraordinary in any way & I relate to you questioning why you yourself would deserve certain things. Im now wondering if its our society/social media that has made me feel as though only people who possess some kind of amazing talent or work ethic or intense beauty are worthy of being heard & thus I constantly live in a state of managed expectations. Would love to hear your thoughts on that.
Not sure if its obvious but I didn't write any hard set new years resolutions so that I don't have to face the idea that I failed in completing them (like every single past year). I did set some loose/vague ones though that I felt were equally not too pressing but are aimed for my personal growth. I now know that these “resolutions” I've set are filled with my own hope that I will continue to grow as a person & become more self-disciplined, but without the implication that Ive failed something if I don't completely transform myself.
This was definitely a topic I didn't ever think about so Im glad I got to reflect on that part of myself. Beautifully written once again, & I cant wait for the next one!
ps your newsletter is actually helping with one of my resolutions which is to focus on myself & just put the same amount of my energy that I give to other people, into myself. Reading these newsletters allow me the opportunity to reflect on myself in ways I might not always get to do on my own so thank you for that!
Words cannot describe how much I look forward to your comments and your insight. Every time I hear what you have to say I feel like I need to write a Part 2 to include some of the perspectives that you bring.
I absolutely love that you are planning on focusing on yourself more this year! I hope this newsletter continues to be a tool that you can use for reflection and self-growth. Excited to hear your thoughts on the next one!
Much needed! As per usual your newsletters are a delight and bring so much perspective to some of life’s greatest challenges.
Thanks Michaela!! I highly value your perspective as well so your support means a lot <3!
This was such a fantastic read!!! I feel so inspired. You’re a beautiful writer 🥺❤️😍
Thanks Elsieeee ❤❤
Hey Rae ( hey whadyya know this rhymes! :) I can’t help myself sometimes and I find laughter in the most unusual places.
I loved your post, because it was honest and very relatable. We all struggle with self-doubt, insecurities and various levels of pessimism. But I couldn’t agree more that the power is in the overcoming despite the doubts. It is difficult to overcome our fears without the holding on tenaciously to hope. I love that you dared to dream… it has reminded me that I need to do more of this.
You received wise counsel- God can use anyone regardless of credentials. He mostly desires someone with a willing heart and an overcomer’s spirit. A willing heart and an overcoming spirit are hard to have without hope. Thank you for sharing your heart with us Rae, it has touched me in wonderful and unexpected ways.
Hi Auntie Njoki!! My face absolutely lit up when I read your comment. It means so much to me that you enjoyed my post and that you were touched by it. I always welcome your encouragement, wise counsel, and jokes/humour!! <3
Amazing, the power of hope. Doesn't cost much, but could do so much...